The Power of Choice

The Power of Choice

Martial Arts in the Park

I was teaching a private martial arts lesson
in the park a couple days ago.

The student I was working with was having trouble
moving his arms in a particular way.
I wanted him to move one hand forward
while the other hand move backward.

Struggling to Move Correctly

The thing is he kept moving both hands
in the same direction and it was a great struggle
for him to move them differently.

We tried all sorts of things to help him.
He would just start to get it and then reverted back.
We must have worked on it for 15 minutes and nothing really changed.

Make The Choice Man

At one point he just stared at his hand and said
“I don’t understand why it’s moving that way.”

I said to him
“It’s not like your hand has a little brain inside of it
and it is making a choice to move differently
from how you want it to move.

It’s your hand man just choose.
Make the choice.
Make the choice man,
make the choice”.

The Truth Clicked

At that moment something clicked inside of him
and he was suddenly able to move his hands
in the way he wanted.
He recognized his power as a conscious human being
and made a choice that was different from his habitual way of moving.

I exclaimed with a big loud YES
and gave him bear hug, clapping him on the back!

Choice is Power

Then I told him don’t forget this feeling.
It’s this feeling of choice that I’m celebrating
because this is the power that allowed you
to overcome your perceived limitation.

Applying the Lesson to the Rest of Life

I have been thinking about this since that moment.
It was a beautiful example of how much power we really have.
This can be applied to so much more than physical movements.
We have mental habits,
emotional habits
and even spiritual habits

When we act from this place of programmed motivation
we are really not using our full potential.
When we are tempted to act in ways that we would rather not
we are able to make a different choice.

Making a Conscious Choice is Difficult

I will admit though that making this choice
against our programming, against our habits
is not an easy task.
At times it may actually be the most difficult thing we can do.

Just yesterday somebody was saying to me that
they feel like when someone is genetically disposed
towards anger or when they are programmed deeply
and early on in life it is not possible
for them to behave any other way.

I recognize that it may be exceedingly difficult to act differently,
to make different choices, but I do believe it is possible.

Find the Power to Choose

I think it is probably something each of us
has to find within ourselves.
The power to choose when we
are being pulled in different directions.

Act Instead of React

In close relationships with other people
I think making conscious choices can go a long way
towards creating harmony.

I find often I react with triggers from my past
rather than making choices in the present.

Choice is in the Present

When I’m able to be conscious of myself
and aware of the other person in this moment
then I I’m able to make a choice.
I am able to act instead of react.

As a friend,
as a lover,
as a parent,
as a son and
as a teacher
Being able to act instead of react
is profoundly beneficial.

Make The Choice Man, Make The Choice

3 thoughts on “Make The Choice Man, Make The Choice

  • November 19, 2015 at 9:03 am
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    This is deeply meaningful to me right now.
    I’m realizing I had an experience like this on Monday where I made a choice that allowed for a new experience to explode into possibility.
    Thank you for being part of illuminating this for me, Vivek.

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  • November 23, 2015 at 12:46 pm
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    A lovely and insightful piece; congratulations and thank you, Vivek.
    One of my most ingrained and challenging patterns is to be continuously active and reactive. The choice I have is to simply be still, take a few breaths, listen to spirit and have the courage to act on the message I receive.

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    • November 23, 2015 at 10:36 pm
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      I can relate to that my friend.
      I like the idea of making the choice to be still and listen.

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